About David Sotelo

i am a free thinking progressively minded writer. I have always questioned everything and never been regretful that I did. I believe in science over religion, and the felt music of life over all and in all. I practice techniques in a process I call optimistic integration, and I am a great admirer of Arthur Janov and his work. I was born on the 26th of May in 1953 and have two children I dearly love.

Finding Our Way to Love: The Mandate of God

Salvation isn’t earned, the cry of the anti Christ is that you earn and deserve. The first Church had everything in common so that none lacked. Those that do not take care of their own are worse than unbelievers. The … Continue reading

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Comfort as a force for change.

Comfort that comes from the same places that our virtues do has a power to change us. It helps us to have sincere feelings from which sincere forgiveness can come, and from sincere forgiveness repentance changes our lives toward more … Continue reading

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Primal Therapy and Rational Spirituality

There is a rational approach to God and Spirituality that doesn’t require a belief in anything supernatural at all. Without a truly feeling approach in a scientific and clear theoretical underpinning, psychology itself is no more than the state supported … Continue reading

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Kittens White and Black

When I was a child and perhaps 4 years old, I really don’t remember except I don’t remember being in school at that time, I went with my southern born family and visited a set of houses. I don’t know … Continue reading

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Optimistic Intelligence: When Hearts Embrace

Hearts embrace, they find caring and caring finds trust, and the communication between caring and trust is a communication with virtue: this is optimistic intelligence. Following this find your heart, find your real self, and always be content to be … Continue reading

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Welcome Progressive Activists!

It’s not enough to think about what is best for the world, we must communicate it and improve communication so that it is more loving and creates greater trust. This isn’t easily done. Progressives have to challenge any learned helplessness … Continue reading

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Here is one approach to the sacred communication between trust and love.

Spiritual coaching is what I offer. It is valuable because it doesn’t require you to accept a disease label as a definition for your life. It is valuable because it doesn’t require you to confess things to anyone but God, … Continue reading

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